
All the love
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
"Sometimes all you hear about is all the hate, but there is more love in this world than you could possibly imagine." - The Horse
Love arises hence hate succumbs
Love extinguishes the fire of hate
Loves invades while hate recedes
Love grows as it is spread
Love unconditional
Love unlimited
Love rules where hate fears to tread
Love cleanses what hate has stained
Love answers everything
Love inexhaustible
Love unwavering
Love universal
Love starts with you
Love you first
Then you can be love
Question?
Where do you struggle to love yourself?
Never A Problem
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
Never had a problem with anyone
No one ever had a problem with me
I know that may seem absurd to you
Took so long for me to discover this too
Yes I did point the finger once or twice
To blame my feelings on what others had done
Oblivious to the subtle message I received
More fingers pointing right back at me
Seemed pretty clear I had the gift
So damn sure I read minds at will
Detecting motives more sinister still
Why else would any one do that to me?
Then the insight came that set me straight
Confused by "reality" in the realm of thought
All said and told, it all came from me
Every problem ever created so framed
Filled with the art of my own thinking
Magic happened when I owned it all
Changed my stories and peace restored
All was calm as it became clear to me
Been blaming all the mirrors sent to help me see
Never met anyone who had a problem with me
As much as they may be convinced of it
They just projecting what they dread to see
Guess they concluded it looked better on me
Projection is a protective mechanism
Reverse engineer your projections to learn about yourself
Question?
How can you forgive yourself and work on you?
Being Me
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
"...And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free" (John 8:32 NKJV)
"Have they gone?"
"Can I take it off now?"
It weighs a tonne, this mask that I wear
It's the only way I know, to hide what I see
Just so I don't have to face me
I had visions of perfection, doing all things right
I shouldn't let the side down
Mustn't give a bad impression of the team
Everyone else, seems to be doing better than me
At least, so it seems
It is hard to tell who is wearing one like me
I could not afford to be me, a price too high to pay
All those tongues wagging and the disapproving looks
From those who had this whole thing, down to a "T"
It was clear to all concerned, that I hadn't done enough
Trying much harder to perform
Earning the right to show up as me
Disappointment lingers on inside
I'm not who they want me to be
So I sport this false accessory
At least I fit in, as longs as I'm not alone with me
My actions showed, me who I was
A memory of who I used to be
The more I look, the more I see
Till I know who I really am
A wonderful creation full of love
Then and only then can my actions fall in line
With the reality at large within me
A human being, not a human doing
Hence, I know, I am, so I do
O what Liberty, I have
From the truth that has set me free
It's Ok just to be Me!!
Get curious about why you do not feel safe to be your true self in the relationship
Explore how much of how you feel is based on truth
Question?
What steps can you take to start testing being your true self?
We Win
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
I am me and you are one too
All depends on points of view
Me a name I call myself
Just so no one becomes confused
When me and you come together
We make something quite unique
One that would otherwise not have been
That special something called we
If I win but you lose
Robbing Peter to pay Paul
What have we really won?
If I win and you do too
Then we really win, me and you!
People receive love in different ways
Take the time to learn about what is important to the other person
Question?
What have you learnt about the other person that demonstrates love to them?
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