Showing Up As LOVE, in all Relationships
[L]ooking for Love - In all the wrong places

All the love

By Frank Bolaji Irawo

"Sometimes all you hear about is all the hate, but there is more love in this world than you could possibly imagine." - The Horse

Love arises hence hate succumbs

Love extinguishes the fire of hate

Loves invades while hate recedes

Love grows as it is spread

Love unconditional

Love unlimited

Love rules where hate fears to tread

Love cleanses what hate has stained

Love answers everything

Love inexhaustible

Love unwavering

Love universal

Thoughts

Love starts with you

Love you first

Then you can be love

Question?

Where do you struggle to love yourself?

[O]wning it, not projecting it

Never A Problem

By Frank Bolaji Irawo

Never had a problem with anyone

No one ever had a problem with me

I know that may seem absurd to you

Took so long for me to discover this too

Yes I did point the finger once or twice

To blame my feelings on what others had done

Oblivious to the subtle message I received

More fingers pointing right back at me

Seemed pretty clear I had the gift

So damn sure I read minds at will

Detecting motives more sinister still

Why else would any one do that to me?

Then the insight came that set me straight

Confused by "reality" in the realm of thought

All said and told, it all came from me

Every problem ever created so framed

Filled with the art of my own thinking

Magic happened when I owned it all

Changed my stories and peace restored

All was calm as it became clear to me

Been blaming all the mirrors sent to help me see

Never met anyone who had a problem with me

As much as they may be convinced of it

They just projecting what they dread to see

Guess they concluded it looked better on me

Thoughts

Projection is a protective mechanism

Reverse engineer your projections to learn about yourself

Question?

How can you forgive yourself and work on you?

[V]ulnerability - daring to be seen

Being Me

By Frank Bolaji Irawo

"...And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free" (John 8:32 NKJV)

"Have they gone?"

"Can I take it off now?"

It weighs a tonne, this mask that I wear

It's the only way I know, to hide what I see

Just so I don't have to face me

I had visions of perfection, doing all things right

I shouldn't let the side down

Mustn't give a bad impression of the team

Everyone else, seems to be doing better than me

At least, so it seems

It is hard to tell who is wearing one like me

I could not afford to be me, a price too high to pay

All those tongues wagging and the disapproving looks

From those who had this whole thing, down to a "T"

It was clear to all concerned, that I hadn't done enough

Trying much harder to perform

Earning the right to show up as me

Disappointment lingers on inside

I'm not who they want me to be

So I sport this false accessory

At least I fit in, as longs as I'm not alone with me

My actions showed, me who I was

A memory of who I used to be

The more I look, the more I see

Till I know who I really am

A wonderful creation full of love

Then and only then can my actions fall in line

With the reality at large within me

A human being, not a human doing

Hence, I know, I am, so I do

O what Liberty, I have

From the truth that has set me free

It's Ok just to be Me!!

Thoughts

Get curious about why you do not feel safe to be your true self in the relationship

Explore how much of how you feel is based on truth

Question?

What steps can you take to start testing being your true self?

[E]xpressing it - So they be getting it

We Win

By Frank Bolaji Irawo

I am me and you are one too

All depends on points of view

Me a name I call myself

Just so no one becomes confused

When me and you come together

We make something quite unique

One that would otherwise not have been

That special something called we

If I win but you lose

Robbing Peter to pay Paul

What have we really won?

If I win and you do too

Then we really win, me and you!

Thoughts

People receive love in different ways

Take the time to learn about what is important to the other person

Question?

What have you learnt about the other person that demonstrates love to them?

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