The Sun
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
Many a cloud across the skies
Don't mean the sun just died
For when they pass
We see what has always been
The sun that always shines
Many a thought occupy the mind
Don't mean your brilliance is gone
For when they pass
We experience what has always been
Your innate brilliance shining through
The clouds represent the different layers of life, circumstances and identities that obscure the truth of our innate essence which is love.
When we step back from those thoughts, we can recentre in the peace of who we really are.
There is a fluidity to thinking and feeling, we can choose to stay or go with the current flow. Ultimately they shall pass and we can connect back to the essence of our being and experience the shining of the sun as joy, peace, love and contentment.
Everyone needs someone who can recognise that you are caught in the thick of it (clouds of confusion) and remind us that the sun is still shining for us to enjoy.
We can navigate from the basement of confusion to the balcony of clarity, from darkness to the bright rays of the sun just by changing perspective/position through not resisting the but rather ascending current patterns of thinking.
The inside-out model of experiencing life means that we don't have to go somewhere to gain peace, joy, and love. It is always there, we just need to become conscious of the layers of thinking that are obscuring them and drop them so that we can become present to experience what has always been.
Let me know what comes up for you when you reflect on the poem.
What practice do you find effective for letting go of unhelpful thinking patterns?
Stay
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
Change this, move that
Make me feel good now
Leave me alone
Ok as I am
As long as everything
Stays as the ego wants it
At least for now, that is
All this happening
To show you that what you
Have been avoiding
None of it can break you
If only you would stay
Long enough
And let experience
Show you
We are more resilient than we think and if we stay long enough we will discover this beyond the initial discomfort.
Running away from discomfort and being afraid of change due to the uncertainty of the unknown. You may be best served to stay and learn from it, just how much more resilient you are than you first imagined.
Embrace your reaction to the unknown as natural due to the uncertainty, but believing that the universe is friendly and all that is taking place is for us not against us, may inspire us to stay and discover what that discomfort holds for us.
The universe loves you too much to let you skip the next lesson in your evolution as it is what you need to be able to move to the next stage of your unfolding.
Breathe into the discomfort and let it do its work and you will be all the better for it.
Uncertainty is an opportunity for self-discovery (delve into self and find out more about it).
The discomfort is tempered by trust that all this is happening for my good. Embracing it builds trust.
Trusting and seeing through the illusion of control creates space and frees up energy that we would otherwise use to try and sustain that illusion. It is liberating, like a cool breeze blowing over you.
Not knowing is alright as we have the safety net of trusting the universe.
The ego is constantly changing stories to maintain the illusion of control.
Let me know what comes up for you when you reflect on the poem.
What has been your experience when you have stayed with the discomfort of the unknown?
Squeezed
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
What an opportunity
For deep discovery
Blockages hidden inside
Now kicking and screaming
Feeling the heat
Put on by the squeeze
Prompted by inconvenient reality
Powered by curious intent
That the learning may begin
Not time to shrink
Expand into it
Grow to be the one
Who knows
Having been there
Empowered to tell others
You can get through this
Squeeze
And be much better for it
The squeeze describes circumstances and situations we rather would not occur that have a way of exposing things buried deep within that would otherwise be hidden.
These things come out as we are caught off guard by the pressure we are under so our usual methods for suppressing them do not work.
The squeeze occurs so we can become aware those things can be heard and dealt with for things to get better even if it doesn't feel so at the time.
It can transform your mindset, outlook, perspectives, paradigms, values. What has been focused on and what has been neglected, question perceived limitations, in effect a new life can open up through the portal of circumstances that put the squeeze on you.
Create time and space to be with yourself rather than constantly distracting yourself.
Let discomfort send you inside on a journey of discovery to drive transformation.
You decide whether to run or embrace the squeeze.
What kind of things have come up for you in the past when you were squeezed?
I Can Adapt
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
I can adapt to changing situations
Because I have not made my mind up
What they should be
I am free to see what comes to me
Hear what wisdom it has to give
I sit and listen while it teaches me
What the Universe seeks to unfold
Then I wonder what next to do
That I get from the universe too
So at no point do I tell it
How it should be
I let it speak and take the lead
In that moment I am wide open
Not presumptuous about what I am to be doing
Once that is clear, I take the next step
All in wonder and amazement at what comes next
Trusting with every turn of events
What the Universe will serve up
Must be that I have learnt to trust
The Greatest Illusion
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
There goes an illusion
As rare as unicorns flying
For to those with fair eyes
Who seek it of life
That it should be perfect still
For woe betide the pleasure of now
If it shows not up in the way it was willed
I stumbled upon one greater still
The creature they call perfect
Rarer than hens teeth
It they sought and still they seek
But none can agree what it is
So the sands of time fade
For those who sit and wait
Resisting the pleasure of the present
Out Of Control
By Frank Bolaji Irawo
Focus on what you love
You only get one at a time
You don't get to choose two
So focus wisely on what love brings you
Never mind those big things
The ones that feel out of control
That is because they really are
Don't waste your precious focus on those
We can't really multitask effectively. Focus is precious, use it wisely.
Focus creates a filter to block out other considerations that may be relevant but not obvious.
Focus on what you cannot change distracts you from those things that you can actually affect.
Having love direct your focus helps you stay centred on what is loving towards you and others in a relationship context.
If what you are focusing on takes you out of love, joy and peace, reflect and refocus on what would love have you do.
In a relationship setting, you have no control over the other person, so it is more productive to focus on what is happening for you.
Reflect on what triggering you, how you are responding and your options if the relationship is no longer working for you.
What are you focusing on that is taking you out of love, joy and peace?
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